** I really hate to do a rant post, because for me, it’s childish and pointless. But unfortunately, there’s this person who bad-mouthed me on their blog and to me, it’s very OTT. Not only did I thought this person was a friend of mine (prior to this), but I also shrugged off warnings that this person will talk bad about me sooner or later. But boy, was I wrong!! Therefore, to this so-called blogger, let me give you a piece of my mind.. my (hopefully) last rant post!
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So you go and stalk people’s blogs and scrutinize every single detail until you find something to bad-mouth on, huh?
Then, you either suddenly pick an argument with that person, b*tch about it to your so-called friends, and if you’re still unsatisfied, you turn to your blog and post your rant there, too.
You should know who you are; you do this on a periodic basis to everyone who used to be your friends!
A reminder, here’s the basic rule of blogging:
A blog and whatever written in it is the owner’s prerogative. Anything he/she posts is up to them. If you don’t like what they’ve posted in there, you can just leave and don’t read that blog again, and find other blog that’s most suited to your taste.
But badmouthing and ranting about your so-called friends and acquaintances, especially if they’re here in KK as well, is really a DUMB thing to do.
And in my case, geez, just because of one word, instead of talking to me personally about it and settling it at once, what did you do? You threw a tantrum and did a rant post about me.
Nice.
If that word is what bothered you most, then you should have just talked about that in your post. I don’t get why you need to bring up other personal matters like what you don’t like about me or comment on what I do about my life.
Here’s another reminder: everybody knows just about everybody else here in KK, so news as well as gossip do spread like wildfire. You of all people should know that, since it happened to you before as well, right? Remember how humiliating it was for you at that time? And since you’re so much better in words, just think of the humiliation YOU give out to the others when YOU rant.
And what IS it about you and your continuous mission of turning everyone against you? Are you not happy until you’re on the world’s most hated list? I mean, if we don’t step on your tail (not on purpose, that is), why do you have to go and purposely step on ours?
Sigh..
I actually feel sorry for you, because not only do you unendingly look for unsatisfactory matters about each person you know, you also just can’t seem to shrug off that persistent negative energy that’s surrounding you.
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ahbing
October 1, 2009 at 10:11 pm
adui… siapa tu o… no manners punya. masih budak ka dia?
Margaret
October 2, 2009 at 12:02 am
whose that?
cathj
October 2, 2009 at 12:26 am
Wowwww…… I thought only Singapore bloggers ada mcm ni…. cyber world.. everywhere the same right..
(Teringin pulak mau tau who is the person.. ;-p… better not…. ^_^)
Fara
October 2, 2009 at 12:45 am
Caya lah girl! *wohoo!* You rawks!
I only read stress-free blog, which doesn’t require a PHD (Permanent Head Damage) to qualify.
It is 10x better… seriously.
chegu carol
October 2, 2009 at 6:42 am
ya, i quite get it if some ppl dont agree with the thing you blog, they better just stay away.
and if they have problem with the thing we blog, they are welcome to blog abt the problem (only), not the person who blog it.
alus
October 2, 2009 at 8:31 am
wow!!…who is that person?? mind telling me..or the whole world???
I wanna KNOW!!!!
Just ignore this type of people!!! Let KARMA get them….
Lorna
October 2, 2009 at 9:54 am
Uiks! I REALLY wanna know who you’re referring to, but as I’d like to say — curiosity killed the cat heheh :) Anyways, you’re right, this is such a small world and everyone knows everyone else here in KK, so sooner or later I’ll know who it is, whether I want to know or not :D
Good post though, and very civil of you to not blast off his/her name and blog address.
Jollence
October 2, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Who is that arr, cari hal bah tu org
Ned
October 2, 2009 at 1:04 pm
it’s hard kan when a friend back-stabbed us… rileks jac… karma they said… i believe in karma… biarla tu urang tu…
Olie
October 2, 2009 at 2:48 pm
doih… kesian juga tu orang tu.. jealous motu…. cian….
daripada dia buang masa cakap pasal org.. bagus dia guna masa dia utk better oneself….
tat person indeed need a big ass whoppin from you Jacq! You go gurl!! whoop! whoop!
Olie
October 2, 2009 at 6:14 pm
post jak la Jacq the blog address for that person… mau juga kami komen2 apa dia cakap… ;-p
Right everyone??? heh,heh,heh… anyways.. relax k gurl… gossips… rumours… bad mouthed words mentioned about you… just ignore it la… ppl will get tired of talking when you just ignored it completely… !
Margaret
October 2, 2009 at 10:20 pm
let us see who is that girl……friends wont backstab ppl like that………
Girllyen
October 3, 2009 at 2:52 am
Some people never grow up~ Hahaha.. i like your post anyway..!
Alb
October 3, 2009 at 7:05 pm
definitely it is not me LOL.
Well Somebody will hate Anybody, because Nobody likes Somebody… hmmm…
marie
October 4, 2009 at 12:42 pm
Some people just don’t have better things to do!
I love your blog!!! :) Keep those snapshots coming, and those paragraphs. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and life, in this cyberspace.
- Marie
Cyril
October 5, 2009 at 1:21 am
Some people just dont have anything else to do but talk bad about others and be a busy body.
I agree that ‘if you don’t like what you read, then don’t bother reading it, or just leave’ so, there is no need to post harsh or childish comments.
Whatever it is.. keep your blog running coz its a good read (from my POV la). Ignore those bitches and take pride that you are better than them in being more matured.
and.. I always believe that it is better not to believe in whatever shit other people says about another person.