I can tell u a story about my late grandfather who passed away in KK. He’s from West Malaysia. There are certain “procedures” that you have to adhere to when “shipping” back the ashes (he was cremated) to West Malaysia to be placed in Nirwana. Apparently, my uncle called him father instead of his name before boarding the flight. This caused him to be left in KK while his ashes were taken back. So for a few months he was in KK and was giving signals to my brother, my uncle, etc. In the end, we went and ask a Taoist and found out that his spirits are still here thus the rites have to be done all over again.

Anyway, if you have 3rd, you have to get used to it. Either pretend you don’t see anything or learn to live with it. Yeah no choice ler. Just dont tell anyone you see something lah hahaha… just like a friend of mine who can see things also. We went to the hospital, then another friend wanted to go to the toilet which he just came out from and told him that dont go in there now. Many of those things there… LOL.

But I’m curious… let me know which cinema? the old cinema ah? :P

JACQ:  I see, didn’t know about the procedures.. and yea, I usually would keep quiet for the rest of the night, and would only tell BF about it the next morning, in broad daylight. Haha.. And yes, hospitals are FULL of ‘em! Trust me, I know! And I was told by a chinese monk that I have to stay away from hospitals and cemeteries too, which is fine with me! LOL..

I kind of agree with what Jefferi said, for the rest of us who can’t see anything, we don’t feel a thing at those areas. But since “they” know that you can see them, they make themselves obvious to you, although why, who knows. Maybe like Jefferi said lah, to ask for your help.

My father in law told me, they believed that after a person passes away, he will remain on earth for 49 days before he will go to the next stage, of either hell, heavan or reincarnations. So within that 49 days is the time when the family should do a lot of praying for them and do alms to help the soul gets forgiveness.

But there is a recent case of an auntie that I know, who had a hard life and after she passed away, she appeared in a dream saying that she’s “leaving”. She didn’t “appear” for the 7th day so I guess, she has gone to the next stage for good. God bless her soul.